Daddy Got Screwed

Well I guess this is my little area of this website where I can just give my thoughts and opinions about, well, whatever I want. I am Daddy so I can do that!

So my first thought, which is appropriate for this site, is simply, Why?

Why must I be limited on the time I spend with my children? Why can't parenting time be equal? Her and I are both equally responsible for giving our children life but yet I am denied equal time! How is that even logically comprehensible?

I see so many stories on the news and mostly talk shows of women wanting a man to take a paternity test because they want the man to be involved with the child. I just don't understand, why on earth would a woman want to keep the father from the child. Yea, our relationship did not work out, so what! It's done, get over it!

In my opinion, my ex is a vile, evil woman. Only a person with such shallow morals and shy any ethics at all would use their own children as pawns in a little game to hurt their father. She has straight up lied! She has committed perjury with the PPO. She has accused me of physical and mental abuse, that is just flat out absurd! She has accused me of "brainwashing" our children to hate her. They are 1 and 3. How in the hell do you brainwash a 1 and 3 year old?

I would not let my ex control me during our relationship so now she is using our children to gain that lost control and she is abusing the system to reign in that controlling behavior. She knows what our baby's mean to me so she knows she can use them to hurt me and that is what she is doing. I feel that I am a very good dad. My girls love me as I do them so there is absolutely no reason to keep them from me.

These lies and deceptions will come back to haunt her. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow. Maybe not for 10 or 15 years but what is given will be returned.