As my story goes, I am a father that must fight against all odds just to be with his children. My ex is so controlling that it is her way or no way and if she does not get her way she responds with calling or threatening with the police. She is playing a game of power in which the pawns are our children.
Despite my many attempts to reason with her and avoid taking this to court she insisted on taking the legal road. She has made several malicious, false and defamatory statements that have tarnished my name and character. She even obtained a Personal Protection Order against me not to use it for it's designed purpose but only as a tool to aid her reign in her controlling behavior.
Does a father that wants so much to be with his children but is only given a visitation schedule of less than equal time really deserve such ill treatment? Do the children deserve such ill treatment by keeping them from their father? This is nothing less then mental cruelty and child abuse.
Yes, I believe that I am a good father and most of all a very good Dad! I love my children more than anything and would love to be able to see them everyday. I love being "Daddy", it is the best job I ever had!
So why would a woman or even a man try so hard to keep a parent and their children apart? The answer is only one word "power". For instance, my ex knows what my children mean to me and she knows that she can hurt me with them so that is what she is doing. I am not the type of father that is just going to sit back and accept what is given to him. My children and I both deserve equal time with each other and there is just not any logical reason why that can't be.
Girls need their daddy's just as much as they need their mommies.
I just can't understand. I see so many TV shows that has mothers requesting DNA tests so the father can be in the child's life but then we have women like my ex that will stop at nothing to keep me from my children.
Reasonable Parenting Time is not reasonable it is unfair, unjust and unethical!
Love, affection, guidance. These are all qualities that come from both parents and to deny a child this is nothing less than child abuse!
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